Who should ask who?

[InYourDreams]

Guys please help,

Ok should a woman ever ask a man to marry her? Being old fashion I think she shouldnt, but this is 2006, and some people think if a chick really loves a guy she should go for it.

What do you think?

[ArmyOF1]

Men > Woman

guy needs to step up and make the move.

[W1ld Bill]

Should is too strong a word. There's no clear cut lines as to who's suppose to do what. The guy should do this, the girl should do that. its all bull. You should do what you feel.

My "ex" told me that she had feelings for me that was more then just friends for a while and she refused to tell me cuz she didn't know if I liked her in the same way and didn't want to look like an idiot. Kinda pissed me off to tell the truth because if you feel strongly enough about something your not gonna let stupid insignificant shit like that get in your way

So, if your a woman and you feel like you wanna marry a guy then drop the question. Don't hold back just cuz your a woman and he's a man and you expect him to ask. Females do this constantly :smh:

Just do what you feel

[jtreezyngga]

I think a guy should do it cuz since guys r more scared of comitment it stronger when a guy does it

[THC]

get with the times, everybody is doing everything nowadays

if she wanna ask him to get married, she probably will ask him, seems logical lol

[macco568]

i dont dont see a girl proposing to me before i do to her......but i guess its nothin wierd

[ßUGZ¥]

not important who asks as long as u feel like they would want to marry you then go for it. why is it that alwayz males have 2 do the hard bit!!!

[PrΩphΣcΨ]

I think a guy should do it cuz since guys r more scared of comitment it stronger when a guy does it
co-sign...

[Luda167]

times have changed... nothing wrong with a girl askin a guy to marry her... its hella weird... i believe the guy should do that...... in a sense it could make the girl seem desparate to propose to the guy......

when the time comes .... i'm making sure i propose.... havin a girl propose to me.... in a way might make me feel second to her...

[NYCrafted]

i feel all yall commentz kid. I mean a man is a man and should step up 2 tha plate but i dont see nothin wrong witta girl proposin as long as thats how strongly they feel.. ya know? But me personally when dat time comes.. imma pop tha question myself first..... well this is 2006 so hopefully lol

[streets]

times have changed. and i guess it could go both ways, but for me.. I'm a pld fashioned corny-type dude when it comes to that kinda stuff, so it would have to be me.

[EckoSe7enDeuce]

well, it depends, they have to do it pretty much the same way, they cant jus ask, its not like when u ask a guy out cuz more times than likely he'll say yes, and dudes are mad afraid of commitment, so its a slippery ass slope

[DblockKidd]

i think nowadays it would have to be either way cause yea most guys is afraid of commitment and it seem like a whole lotta guys will never get married because they wont ask any girl to marry them

[sanguine_rosary]

traditional as i am, i think its the man's thing to do..
but u know, whatever makes u happy, nowadays theres nothing ppl wouldnt do..

[Ge{T}:oF{F}:M{e}]

i think itz all on ya feelingz but sum femalez might prefer 4 tha man 2 propose cuz it`ll mean they really wanna be wit her but if a female wanna propose go 4 it as long as u kno ya feelingz iz legit and u sure u wanna be wit dis person 4 tha rest of ya life ..

[viciuzurban]

doesnt matter nowadays either one can do it depends on whos the agressive one in the relationship not necessary all the case tho but either sex can ask

but for me if i found a dime piece girl i gonna wife her for sure!

[Adikt]

Girl asking would just plain out be akward

[lil_guyana_souljah]

yes..times are changing

[We$ton]

well its upto them really, but me personally i think the man should ask

[EmperorMACC]

The man is suppose to the asking simple its the mans job to do the chasing and its the womans job to the choosing thats how nature wants it to be....so let it be...

[lostsoul21]

the guy should ask the girl

[HOTP]

I THINK SOCIETY HAS INSTILLED THE THOUGHT THAT A MAN SHUD ASK....SO MOST MEN THESE DAYS HAVE TAKEN ON THIS VIEW....AS A RESULT IF A WOMAN ASKS A MAN THEN HE WILL HAVE NO IDEA IT WAS COMIN...NONE WATSOEVA....SO IF A WOMEN DECIDES 2 EMBARK DOWN THAT ROAD...SHE SHUD DO IT WITHOUT A DOUBT IN HER MIND THAT HE WILL SAY YES....AND IF THATS THE CASE (BY THAT LOGIC) HE SHUD HAVE ASKD ALREADY....

BUT WOMEN CAN I GUESS....

[Streetballer]

a girl could make her man understand that she want to get asked

but a guy should ask !! so girls give ur man some big ass hints