View Full Version : I'm Inna Crazy Situation
bLoOd_mOneY
February 25th, 2006, 11:08 PM
Damn yo, im in a crazy situation. i'm in love wit this girl. we've been together for like 7 months. at that time she was in the U.K and i was still in NY. she came to NY in Nov 05, and i picked her up from the airport. we chilled out together that night. there was a chemistry between me and her. she looks good and everything, but that wasn't even my specific main focus, ya dig, she also has versatile intellect which is kinda rare that you find in a beautiful person these dayz. but anyways- she came to NY for a 3 month visit A.K.A vacation and within that vacation we've spent time together. i told her i love her and she said she knows it. but sometimes i don't think she really understands how sincere & real i'm being about this. i show it each time i have the chance. i know she's been hurt before. and i know truly to my self that i will neva hurt this woman and thats on my life, ya dig. she told me that she loves me. but one day she got really on a depressive side and wanted to give up on the relationship because she feels that she wasn't lovin' me like she suppose to and felt she wasted my time and apologized. it was really sad to see her go thru that shit as tears came down her eyez. i know she's been struggling her whole life. her fams depends on her so often that she feels she has no individual dependency for herself, so i understood where half of the depression was coming from. but i didn't understand why she wanted to break up the relationship cause beyond her being my girlfriend shes been my best friend ya dig, she's been my true homie and i'll do anything for her. i care for her like we share the same body, on some real shit; i consider her my soul-mate. she cried i held her and told her it was gonna be alright. even though the pain was hurting me inside i still held on strong for her. but in my mind & heart i was saying to myself "i don't wanna see u go, baby". i'm still loyal to her. tha shits craze, i think about her almost everyday like "damn i love this woman, why this shit gotta be like this?" even though the situation seems unfair i'm not stressing it but it's like "damn why?", ya dig. the fact is i don't feel like being with nobody else but her, and that shit is real different for me to feel cause i've never pledge myself to no one outside my initial fams and this upcoming april would be our one year anniversary on the actual relationship. but anyways i'm really considering going to the U.K and live there as to the point that i'am fed-up wit the states. but i wish to see her and make the "impossible" possible, it's not like some puppy love or wateva ya understand, i really love this woman to death on some real shit. i don't know what to do now within this situation. should i wait and let time decide the fate? or give up, what?
InYourDreams
February 25th, 2006, 11:38 PM
no..dont give up..It sounds like ur love is too strong..
I'm really in love with a man and sometimes i feel like I'm holding him back. Theres been times I felt like doing something like that, but I love him with all my heart.
Its really a bad situation, i feel for you
momomo
February 25th, 2006, 11:55 PM
no..dont give up..It sounds like ur love is too strong..
I'm really in love with a man and sometimes i feel like I'm holding him back. Theres been times I felt like doing something like that, but I love him with all my heart.
Its really a bad situation, i feel for you
^^^^^^^^^^^YEA MAN WAT SHE SAID, SOUNDS LIKE UR LOVE IS TOO STRONG, STICK WIT HER :)
-ya girl-
February 26th, 2006, 12:55 AM
cuz she sound so depressed.. u needa still be there fo her.. u gota kno wen u depressed itz like no one carez..so go and be der fo her..even if she dont wana be wit u righ now.. stay as her close friend n wen she comez out of it..she will grow n realise dat u been der tha whole time fo her..and hopefully take u back..
Eazy Da Snowman
February 26th, 2006, 01:46 AM
damn son, dats a tough situation... but if u feel dat way about her, dont let her go... stick wit her...
Kwik Nik 22
February 26th, 2006, 05:51 AM
Man, crank sum Snoop shit, "bitchez aint shit but a hoe and a trick"
lol I didn't read dis article so sorry if ur offended, anywayz, keep it pimpin' G
youngcity151
February 26th, 2006, 05:54 AM
yo just stick it out fam!
streets
February 26th, 2006, 09:22 AM
stick it out. if the uk is where your heart is, then that is where you should go. Sometimes when you are the goto person, you don't think of yourself. She wants to be able to lean on you, but she's probably never had that before. She's probably used to takin care of everyone else, and puttin herself last. I say that cuz even if you go, there will be an adjustment for her. It will involve trust, and it will involve her basically giving in to you. but only trust and consistency will get you there. You gotta ride it even when she's giving you resistance to it. She's not doing it on purpose, but again, its new to her.
with that said, know the feeling homie. when you have that bond, don't ever give it up. A lotta people in life never find their soul mate, or evcen someone they love truly. we spend a lotta time settling. so if it feels real, ride it. gonna have to have some real talk with her. no gimmicky shit, speak from the heart. it delivers the best message.
FïŅgĄz
February 26th, 2006, 11:19 AM
dude on the real, all bullshit aside:
Never hold back, never. If u dont go for it u'll never know wot could have been. If u can genuinely see yourself being with this girl for the rest of your life, take the opportunity. Here's the dark side: If u found out that she died, u'd be feeling devastated n ud have regret for the rest of ure life that u should have gone for it wen u could.
So mayne jus stick with it, n dont give up.
InYourDreams
February 26th, 2006, 11:49 AM
reading ur post almost made me cry...on the real
sizzle305
February 26th, 2006, 12:33 PM
Man, crank sum Snoop shit, "bitchez aint shit but a hoe and a trick"
lol I didn't read dis article so sorry if ur offended, anywayz, keep it pimpin' G
and i bet you wonder why youre in negative...
XX_red_spyda_XX
February 26th, 2006, 01:53 PM
fukin luv sukzzz.......
usher
February 26th, 2006, 05:03 PM
yo cousin am feelin what u going thru man, my advise to u is stick wit her and let her know how much she means to u and how much she's changed your way of like y'know.. but do remember that she is a depressed person just like you mentioned so just take it little by little let things work out easily... best of luck to u
yOuRz_TrUlY922
February 26th, 2006, 05:28 PM
If you really love her ,as i can see you do dont give up on her. It seems like you really care about her. Dont let her get away if she means that much to you. Go get ya girl boo if it's meant to be you'll see that it was worth it.
hope it works out for you
you seem like a good dude
lilbuddha24
February 26th, 2006, 05:34 PM
Just stick it out. The love is there. Everything else will fall in place in due time. Don't give up. She needs you the most now. Hope it works out for you.
young_crush400
February 27th, 2006, 04:48 PM
man on sum realshit you gotta close one door for another one to open. this looks like one door that just cant open not to be negative or anything. EVERYTHING HAPPENS 4 A REASON.
Darker*
February 27th, 2006, 10:03 PM
sucka for love
vexvegaz
March 2nd, 2006, 08:13 AM
sucka for loveu aint lyin!
Tha R.O.C.XXX
March 2nd, 2006, 02:24 PM
if u got da doe den go to da uk or tell ha to come to da statez and live wit ha
z.Designs
March 5th, 2006, 09:25 PM
dont give up...:)
ArmyOF1
March 6th, 2006, 05:31 PM
stay by her side, and keep going
sdoubled
March 6th, 2006, 06:31 PM
but i wish to see her and make the "impossible" possible,
speechless..
Soul Assassin
March 7th, 2006, 09:03 PM
let her go, b on sum real shyt homie, dun punish urself 4 her pass, its not ur fault
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