Who wears the pants in the relationship

[tsboss1]

This has been a big debate round here...Yall tell me who weres the pants in the relationship and why.


I honestly feels a man wears the pants because we make most the decisions, we make the money(more of it in most cases), and we support or familys.


lets talk about this

[InYourDreams]

lol..ya think?

Who cares as long as the decisions get made

[InYourDreams]

btw, i let my man think that he does...lol

[tsboss1]

alll girls say that.. y would u let him think that?

[InYourDreams]

Really, I was joking. We pretty much share the decision making. I'm always running ideas by him and he does the same. We both still do what we want to.

When it comes to money making....you'd be surprised how many women make more than their men. Who cares who makes it as long as it pays the bills

[lilbuddha24]

it depends on the personalities in the relationship. for me, my girl and i both make the decisions together. we raun ideas by eachother and whoever has the best one, well thats what goes.

[streets]

yeah, that age old question doesn't quite apply these days. When it comes to decision-making, I would feel better if we shared the responsibility. I will say the that there are roles men and women have that allow us to interact. not on that you gotta be in a ***chen, but a women shoudl act like a woman, give off women, and treat me like a man. In return, I wil act like a man, treat her like a women, and let everyone around know that thats my fine ass lady.

[InYourDreams]

A man is a man and is always gonna be a man....they should be treated like men....I dont want to be treated like a man...and i have no desire to control

[tsboss1]

yea u are all right...but if everythings 50/50..why is the divorce rate so high? I think that Decision making isnt 50/50 anymore in most cases and more men are working then women and paying more bills. I feel that men automatically feel they have more authority even though some women think they have more power over there men by telling them what time to be in the house, who they can hang out with and more. I look at it like this. Most men drive there girl around 100% of the time. Most men pay for dinner. Most men pay the bills. Most men fix things around the house, Cut the grass etc... I really think women have very little authority but im not saying things cant be 50/50 as far as decision making, I just think men have a bigger role, so we should have the most power.

[sizzle305]

Who cares as long as the decisions get made
has a point

[InYourDreams]

I think the divorce rate is high because people rush into marriage

[streets]

I don't think it was ever meant to be 50/50. The issue is that the old traditional structure has been the woma stay at home, have kids, watch, and have dinner ready for her man. Now, kids go to day care and mena and women work. So, I can understand a woman saying why I gotta be in the ***chen? The other side is that we, as men still have to do the man stuff (grass, house stuff, washing the cars, taking out the garbage, and all that) and now becuase women wor it becomes we both need to help out with the kids and we both need to cook. That works for me, but you can't scream equality, then say thats a mans job. If you want it to be a mans job cool, but I'm a man and if I'm gonna be doing that "man" stuff plus a little more there needs to be a women treating me like a man. Not fighting with me over who whould wear the pants.

[InYourDreams]

word.

[sweetz254]

>>agrees with streets<<

[tsboss1]

yea streets u right...but im not talkin about u argue with ur mate who has the most power.. Im talkin about just in general. I was basically asking, as a man do u feel like u have more power or do u think ur girl has more power.....I know girls that think they can get anything out there men..but then i know its dudes that gag with their boys about how they have more power so this is where im comin from

[InYourDreams]

This is a mans world...check it out...I have a job, I work with all men, I do what they do, I'm even better at it in alot of cases...I know Im good. I have to be because I'm working in an industry that is dominated by men and I need their respect. I get paid very well for what I do, but I dont get paid what they do....Women have always been treated as the weaker sex

[streets]

gotcha. was on my political horse. We all wanna act like we the man. When you around your boys, you gonna act like you runnin it, women do the same. In the end, if yall on the same. don't really care what you say around the girls, as long as we don't bring that dillusional shit behnd closed doors.

[InYourDreams]

personally, in my relationship...it dont matter....I want to be treated like a lady....its give and take...I'm pretty independent tho, and i think my man appreciates that. I dont need him, I want him..

[streets]

that's whats up. preach preach. be a lady, be a woman and be able to do that shit if you have to. Not that we gonna make you, but at least we know you can.

[InYourDreams]

:sorry: but the words control and power....kinda piss me off

[streets]

I hear you. we'll remember to leave those words out of the sex talk, or leave them in. Angry sex????:mad:

[InYourDreams]

lol k

[tsboss1]

power is just a word to express the feeling of someone that does more then the other...thats how i look at it and i feel that if the guy does more then he has the right to say so. on the other hand, I know girls that have more power esp the ones that take care of their kids because the dad is a deadbeat. Its alot of women like that now days unfortunantly but In most cases, judges will let the women keep the baby before the father and order him to pay child support.. I believe thats power

[NyCzMoStWnTeD]

ive been seeing alot on the news tht the girls are

[SilkShockaNelly]

my girl does..real real real real talk, she does..lol i cant even front, i let her be boss..its fine

[DaRocket]

Either way you both are you to have to come to an agreement and that would help to keep the relationship healthy.

[MC Squish]

Chicks.

Men can't stand pain.

We go through it every month.

You try pushing a bowling ball out of your penis........... Ow.