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emceegrendel
December 26th, 2005, 05:20 AM
so ive been diggin this girl for a pretty long time and weve recently just been kickin it, smokin, whatever. from a neutral source, she says that i am the perfect guy for her but she thinks of us as friends. she kinda fucks around and sends "signals" n shit. but i dunno if shes just playin. is there certain things i should do or avoid in the future that would help me steer more away from the friendship route, and more towards the relationship route?

uNot
December 26th, 2005, 05:27 AM
put her hand down your pants.

seriously, just see what she does, whats the worse that could happen

kayy0ungn
December 26th, 2005, 06:17 AM
go for it homeboi its the only way u gon b hella pissed when anotha guy gets in first

4104Life
December 26th, 2005, 10:07 AM
From what the neutral source says that should be enough for you to go in for the kill, she may be saying she thinks of you as just friends because that's how you act towards her and she may think that's what you want....girls are really sneaky about what they really feel so my advice dawg, tell her you wanna take things a step further because you really like her and have other feelings...the worst she can do is say no and i'm sure she'll still be friends with you regardless, you just have to value your relationship with her for what it's worth, good luck.

fatalfarrow
December 26th, 2005, 10:55 AM
^^^ yeah, what he said

Cameosis
December 26th, 2005, 12:46 PM
dont tell her, show her...

dont be like "yo shawty i kinda like you"

be like walkin down the street...talkin n stuff. then stop, look in her eyes, n kiss her

medialab54321
December 26th, 2005, 03:42 PM
Never gonna happen..once in the friendship zone you in there for life.

mdotwilliams44
December 26th, 2005, 05:25 PM
dont let her know but know. dont ask her out just send out the vibe. give her the look and see if shes feeling you. if not back off. It depends on how old you are too. With women they like friendships as a start because that usually leads to a long relationship. But if you are dealing with a highschool chick then she probably wants a relationship based on pure attraction.

brilex
December 26th, 2005, 06:28 PM
yo, go for it dont worry about what happens cuz like said Kayy0Ungn if a guy gets her befor u ur gonna be pissed as hell!

KarmelFlamez
December 27th, 2005, 01:21 AM
tell her how u feel since yall so close

emceegrendel
December 28th, 2005, 06:57 PM
bump

P.H.A.T
December 28th, 2005, 06:58 PM
tell her how u feel since yall so close

deNM
December 28th, 2005, 07:08 PM
From what the neutral source says that should be enough for you to go in for the kill, she may be saying she thinks of you as just friends because that's how you act towards her and she may think that's what you want....girls are really sneaky about what they really feel so my advice dawg, tell her you wanna take things a step further because you really like her and have other feelings...the worst she can do is say no and i'm sure she'll still be friends with you regardless, you just have to value your relationship with her for what it's worth, good luck.

REALTALK87
December 28th, 2005, 11:16 PM
make a move and if she gets freaked tell her you just fuckin around

Fresh2death
December 29th, 2005, 03:39 AM
a yo jus set ya self up for a kiss if ya source was rite den she will be wit it. but dat hand down da pants shit is way to aggressive an can ruin ya whole shit.

dblock354`
January 10th, 2006, 11:03 PM
man if wanna make a move, make a move son, if she rejects you, then be like altright we just friends, and when she decides that be just friends, and make sure, nigga I said make sure you go out and find someone else, dont stick around in the friend phase, because these chickens will ride your ass to the bank with that friendship shit. If you become her friend make sure you on some other honeys, that
one Can I get a muthphukkin witness!!

DblockKidd
January 11th, 2006, 12:02 AM
^^word cause even if yall do be friends she still know u like her and she gonna be tryin to get extra attention and shit outta u. and if she ever get another man and yall still friends and her man actin up she gonna go to u expectin u to deal wit her problem 2 and ur feelins for her aint gonna go away just sittin around her all the time

Intoxicated
January 11th, 2006, 11:32 AM
Just take your dick out and smack her with it... She will know what to do, its instinct.

sizzle305
January 11th, 2006, 11:50 AM
^^ wise man

notorious_indi
January 11th, 2006, 12:08 PM
Act flirty wiv anotha girl in front of her, and if she get jealous then u kno ur in their son!

yOuRz_TrUlY922
January 16th, 2006, 11:04 AM
well start a random conversation and just ask quetions to see if shes thinkin the same way you are. us females do tend to hide our feelings. its a way to keep us from getting hurt. but like a few other ppl have said you gone be pissed if some otha nigga get to it first. and even if she say that mabye its not right for yall to be in a relationship aint nothin wrong with being friends cuz friends get some too.
its called "friends with benefits"