*~Help Please~ *

[DytnsNum1Stunna]

Yall dont really know me here but im a cool, real nigga...
And the nicer i am to people... the more shit happens to me... so i got a new issue and i dont know where to go with it...

So over the summer, i was in a relationship wit this girl..who is cool with my roommate and his friends... and we all work together... once she met me she saw i wasnt like the other dudes and we started kickin it... I am a real quiet type dude so i dont tell me business or show my feeling to my male friends b/c, to me, its none of their business...

They didnt kno that that was my girlfriend... we kept our relationship low b/c we dont want people at work watchin us as they would... so to make a long story short...

We was all drinkin one night... and we got drunk...she was drunker than us so i told her to let me take her home... but she wanted to stay the night while, me, my roommate, and our other male friend went to the club... so i left and met up with my other friends at the club... and they said they would meet me later... when i left they took her into my roommates room and the other dude fucked her...

This happened 3 months ago... and i found out LAST NIGHT :smh: ... and these 3 people been smilin in my face.. the whole time...

What do you think i should do???

Props for the help...

[hook]

drop the bitch....she shouldnt be drinking to the point where she cant control herself anyway

[glameriz]

damn...dats corny as shit
cant even trust ya "friends"
dats y I chill solo lol
but ionno what to tell u to do
jus keep ya head up

[W1ld Bill]

Fuck em all. If all these niggas been hidin this shit from you for 3 months then niggas aint worthy of your trust or anything else.

[hook]

damn...dats corny as shit
cant even trust ya "friends"
dats y I chill solo lol
but ionno what to tell u to do
jus keep ya head up

keep in mind that he said he didnt tell his friends about them so his friends didnt know...they thought he didnt like her so its not their fault....its the girls fault for drinking like a dumbass

[ßųşŧą Ņůţ]

^^ but they also hadn't said anything for 3 months so i think they knew sometin was happenin....drop da bitch and...depends how good of friend they are apparently not that good...drop dat boi tooo..find some friends that will actually respect the famous line

"bros b4 hoes"

[DytnsNum1Stunna]

they knew i liked her... but they didnt kno that was my girlfriend...

[Mimi]

she used being drunk as an excuse to be a hoe.....she knew wut she was doin....i say leave the bitch, and keep ol dude at a distance....but thas jus me...:Smh: some folks

[fuckhim]

That's a real sad thing..... well when your close ones betray you its hard to absorb..... It would have been appropriae for the girl to admit that she was sorry for what happened as she was drunk she could not control herself, this would have restored some of her honour (never fully though)....... it seems that's not the case... she disrespected u by getting laid with your roommate, she disrespected even more by not telling the truth (I'm more more concerned to this one)

so first u cut the relationship with the girl.... no relationship should continue on the basis of disbelieve... she basically disrespected u in every means..

secondly your roommates didn't tell this u for 3 months.... were they feeling guilty and thought they could not stand b4 u, is this the reason they hide this from u????? well I doubt that..... so they are not good friends at all who cannot respect other roommate and his girl... so better leave those assholes coz if u deside to stay with them, they might cause even more havoc later.... all decision is upto you....

Third is for u.... were u honest with yourself ????? I mean when you were having some relation with the girl, did u have any other relations with other girls ???? any sexual or anything ??? if you were honest then stop thinking that why u always face shit........ simply because honest people always face shits, thats the low of this world.. I don't know why, may be this is the test for honesty, Almighty knows better........ there is nothing wrong being honest or cool, u are perfectly OK..... just keep staying honest.. let the shit remain in shits, get along and obviously you will find honest men/women who you can rely upon...... sorry for long lectures, may be u might get some help from here, thanks

[fuckhim]

That's a real sad thing..... well when your close ones betray you its hard to absorb..... It would have been appropriae for the girl to admit that she was sorry for what happened as she was drunk she could not control herself, this would have restored some of her honour (never fully though)....... it seems that's not the case... she disrespected u by getting laid with your roommate, she disrespected even more by not telling the truth (I'm more more concerned to this one)

so first u cut the relationship with the girl.... no relationship should continue on the basis of disbelieve... she basically disrespected u in every means..

secondly your roommates didn't tell this u for 3 months.... were they feeling guilty and thought they could not stand b4 u, is this the reason they hide this from u????? well I doubt that..... so they are not good friends at all who cannot respect other roommate and his girl... so better leave those assholes coz if u deside to stay with them, they might cause even more havoc later.... all decision is upto you....

Third is for u.... were u honest with yourself ????? I mean when you were having some relation with the girl, did u have any other relations with other girls ???? any sexual or anything ??? if you were honest then stop thinking that why u always face shit........ simply because honest people always face shits, thats the low of this world.. I don't know why, may be this is the test for honesty, Almighty knows better........ there is nothing wrong being honest or cool, u are perfectly OK..... just keep staying honest.. let the shit remain in shits, get along and obviously you will find honest men/women who you can rely upon..... sorry for long lectures, may be u might get some help from here, thanks

[Mimi]

^^^yea that too.....

[DytnsNum1Stunna]

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to fuckhim again.

yeah... thanx for the advice i read all of it...

and i guess to elaborate on the situation... no i didnt cheat.. yes i stayed honest adn no these are my true friends...


i have never thought of them as my true friend... its more like a business.. we all need a place to stay and have bills that are due...i cant do it by myself at the moment... so the roommate was a crutch... but more times that not... he has became a hinderence... and im thru with it...

i have 2 months before i move off to florida and go back to school and staet my career to get outt of dayton... so ima keep it business while im still here and have no extra contact or anything with these dudes...

thats how i feel...

[FïŅgĄz]

to be honest man, shit as this may sound, they aint true mates if they knew u liked her. you dont have to be goin out wit a girl for your friends not to get with her. the girl is more in the wrong, n i do hope that uve already told her to fuck herself. uve liked her 4 a long time man, so its gna b hard but there is no way u can stay wit her. if shes done this now knowin wot u 2 had, think bout wot she mite do if u were an item?

[harlem1]

this is a two sided thing. On one hand you should have told at least one of your male friends. I am like you becasue I dont tell my business to everybody but I have one male friend that I can tell all my feelings too. Your friend shouldnt have fucked her since he knew that you liked her. That was a little disrespectful. I wouldnt trip over it tho. I would leave those friends and that girl alone. I wouldnt want a girl that gets drunk like that. good luck man... everybody that you think is your friend, might not be.

[Hyrule_Link]

shit dawg if i could id give u a mayne hug.........im feelin 4 ya dude, if she tink she got tha right 2 go n get drunk n sleep around then boi.....u best drop her, n like mimi sed she knew wot she was doin nigga, damn i feel 4 ya dawg b happy aight, well try n keep a smile on ya face :)

n 4 thos so called friends fuck'em mayne

[pastor pervert]

they ain't your friends homie and your girlfriend i'd drop her like a bad habit.it might take awhile to get over but you'll be better of in the long one homie.

[papadocsl1]

i have an AK and a 380 which one would u like? id kick their asses dawg. but the shorty.. she was drunk.. ur "bois" shouldnt have tried none on her mayn. u can still keep her.. but those niggaz r green.

[DytnsNum1Stunna]

^^feel u...i think the 380 will work...

[AVanquish]

i don't know what to tell you

[Shaggz17]

Yall dont really know me here but im a cool, real nigga...
And the nicer i am to people... the more shit happens to me... so i got a new issue and i dont know where to go with it...

So over the summer, i was in a relationship wit this girl..who is cool with my roommate and his friends... and we all work together... once she met me she saw i wasnt like the other dudes and we started kickin it... I am a real quiet type dude so i dont tell me business or show my feeling to my male friends b/c, to me, its none of their business...

They didnt kno that that was my girlfriend... we kept our relationship low b/c we dont want people at work watchin us as they would... so to make a long story short...

We was all drinkin one night... and we got drunk...she was drunker than us so i told her to let me take her home... but she wanted to stay the night while, me, my roommate, and our other male friend went to the club... so i left and met up with my other friends at the club... and they said they would meet me later... when i left they took her into my roommates room and the other dude fucked her...

This happened 3 months ago... and i found out LAST NIGHT :smh: ... and these 3 people been smilin in my face.. the whole time...

What do you think i should do???

Props for the help...did she confess or was it a different way u found out..........and has she been honest all along besides this.......sounds like you need to sit her down and talk to her!!!!!!!!

[THC]

:massacre:

[DytnsNum1Stunna]

thanx for all of yalls help..

[papadocsl1]

yeah. exactly how u found out that they fucked her?

[yungkel03]

You should of told your friends that was your girl, but they kno wassup, and she at fault regardless there is no excuse for her dumbass. so cut them and her loose, its dat simple.

[Gregdhinson05]

Here's a list of steps you should do to help yourself.

1. Buy a gun
2. Buy some Bulletts
3. load the gun
4.lay tiles down on the carpet so no blood gets on it, and your cool roomates won't have to pay for carpeting cleaning.
5. shoot yourself

follow those steps and all your problems will be gone. for anyone else who want guidence email me at urAfuckingLoser@urFriendsTrainedURgirl.com

[AceKoopa24]

Lol....Thats some funny shit but true.

[The-MMMOS]

dawg, thats not you man!... don't even mention it.... your dudes is bogus too!..they should of backed off, cuz they knew u liked her!!....there's alot more girls in the world..just forget her...im sure there's plenty of girls where u stay!...behind all that it's a lesson to learn man, don't trust people so fast!

[so_seductive]

Yall dont really know me here but im a cool, real nigga...
And the nicer i am to people... the more shit happens to me... so i got a new issue and i dont know where to go with it...

So over the summer, i was in a relationship wit this girl..who is cool with my roommate and his friends... and we all work together... once she met me she saw i wasnt like the other dudes and we started kickin it... I am a real quiet type dude so i dont tell me business or show my feeling to my male friends b/c, to me, its none of their business...

They didnt kno that that was my girlfriend... we kept our relationship low b/c we dont want people at work watchin us as they would... so to make a long story short...

We was all drinkin one night... and we got drunk...she was drunker than us so i told her to let me take her home... but she wanted to stay the night while, me, my roommate, and our other male friend went to the club... so i left and met up with my other friends at the club... and they said they would meet me later... when i left they took her into my roommates room and the other dude fucked her...

This happened 3 months ago... and i found out LAST NIGHT :smh: ... and these 3 people been smilin in my face.. the whole time...

What do you think i should do???

Props for the help...


Okay when this was going down it was her job to tell ol dude that she was your girl...no matter how pissy drunk she was...But that shows you that she was not the one for you...and the fact that you rommie did not tell you this...I would put a cap in his funky ass triflin ass nigga

[afrocortz]

dash da bitch!!!!!

[Mike2001]

dawg, thats not you man!... don't even mention it.... your dudes is bogus too!..they should of backed off, cuz they knew u liked her!!....there's alot more girls in the world..just forget her...im sure there's plenty of girls where u stay!...behind all that it's a lesson to learn man, don't trust people so fast!

[P.Town]

If I was u get some better friends cause dats fucked up of dem, but if I was u I would of let dem know what's up anyway between U & her, and fuck her cause something like dat simliar happend 2 me leave her alone u find something better playa don't let it get the best of U.

[RINX]

Fuck em all. If all these niggas been hidin this shit from you for 3 months then niggas aint worthy of your trust or anything else.

[We$ton]

thats fucked...

dump that bitch if you haven't already...

[Streetballer]

man fuck dem both!! yo friends didnt tell you for three focking months!! that means they allready knew you had some wid da girl, so dey aint no friends!! fuck tem !!
as fo da girl...she a mothaficking bitch!! being drunk is no reason to be fucking someone else!! she knew how she is if she drunk, so i say fuck er to!! just keep it srtaight buisness wid da boys en ditch da bitch !!
thats what i had to say man peace!

remember : KEEP YA HEAD UP !!

[doonovin]

fuck em all and fuck that nigga that fuck your girl and fuck her ass to stomp the nigga that fucked your girl and give the bitch a california smile

[z.Designs]

damm das hardd...id say drop her too
and u shud get real friends..who dont do stuff behind yo back

[da_microfone_destroya]

u cant blame ur friend, i mean he didnt know....
but ur girl is a hoe, damnit find a girl with some integrity

[Intoxicated]

Beat there ass plain and simple. Any homie that is man enough to fuck another dudes dime better be man enough to get his ass beat by the boyfriend.