I neeed madd help from xperienced people (not bout sex)

[z.Designs]

aigh,,,im 16...n i really like girls ...but iz hard fo me to talk to em.. IM NO HOMO!!
right now i really cant take it n e mo...so ye...iv been talkin to a few gurlz thru msn..
well i got da emails thru mah frenz...but i always run out of stuff to say...
i dont kno y buh iz realli hard fo meh to told to chicks. and wen i see em in school..i dont have to courage to talk to em..i admit im shy buh im no homo

so people plezzz help me out here

[Baller101]

well jsut talk to her and if u see she talks wit interest in u ask her to the movies or sumthn
the worst she can say is no and if she does ask anotha 1 , its not that bad

[Kingofscrewston]

same shit here word like a motha

this always helps me..................think of it this way, she just as nervous to talk to u, we men think girls are all confident and talk to whoever whenever...........like my nigga said^^^ the worst she can say is no

[z.Designs]

imm plannin to talk to dis chick in school that ive been talkin to msn fo while now...ye i guess asap...
i need help from u guys ..lyke what to say..n wen will b da bess tyme :)

[z.Designs]

n i propped all u who posted

[i`M [A] hUS[T]LA]

its all good if your shy

it must feel awakward talkin to her in person then online huh i agree..

jus try to build up your confident to talk to her or have some of ya friends go with you

or if you know friends of her talk to them and tell them to tell that girl wussup =]

[Baller101]

if u have any classes wit her talk to her there , or like at lunch or sumthn make her notice u from all other ppl like stand out and shyt and than make ur move ask her sumwhere

[z.Designs]

worse...is dat...thiz girl im talkin to on msn...ive seen her nuff time in school...n she b noticin me a couple times...but i dont got da courage to say hi to her n tell her i was da guy talkin to her on msn...
so ye.....im so lost right now

how wud i b able to talk to her"?? :(

[z.Designs]

if u have any classes wit her talk to her there , or like at lunch or sumthn make her notice u from all other ppl like stand out and shyt and than make ur move ask her sumwhere

:( :(....aww shez 1 year yunga...n we dont go da same lunches...i juss see her sumtimes in the hallways on da way to class

afta school she b chillin wit all her frenz

[Santa's Bitch]

Look son....Just practice and ask random shit look:

Just ask Questions and more Questions that led from the original Questions

[Lanoe90]

Look son....Just practice and ask random shit look:

Just ask Questions and more Questions that led from the original Questions
about the confidence...just lift your head high man...whats the worst that could happen..she turns you down?/? Right! - there's so many girls out there...and im sure there's more than one..that u can jus be yourself around...and she's cul with it..she even likes it(and not in a loser way)...Good luck thoe!

[so_seductive]

first you need to approach the girl with some confidence...and it is not like your going to have a formal convo with her...so just talk about stuff around school, classes, music whatever to keep the convo flowing and eventually it will come more easier

[SkipStaa]

Nigga .. She Just as nervous as you Pimpin next time you see her take a deep breath and call her over..

Ask her how her days is
what classes she has
what she does after school
she'S young find out what time her curfew is IF ANY lol
what's she does for fun ask if she goes to the movies or the mall when she say yea then ask if she would want to go with you this weekend if she says yes end the conversation and get her number always be the one to leave first always make them want jut a little more

[SkipStaa]

The Real Key Is To Ask Questions that led to conversation not questions like how old are you were there is only one answer! YOU DONT WANT TO MAKE IT SOUND LIKE AN INTERVIEW IT A BLANCE YOU WANT TO GET AS MUCH INFO AS YOU CAN WITH OUT SOUNDING LIKE A BOT

AGE
SEX
WERE YOU LIVE

NOOO BRING IT UP DURING CONVERSATION!!


EX.

guy: you go to the mall a lot?
girl: yea
guy: Me to I live on BLA BLA so it right down the street from me
girl: O cool i live like umm 3 seconds away from you i live near bla bla
guy: do you suck dicks
gril: ass hole (runs like hell)

Have any question get at me AOL SN: SkipStaa

[SkipStaa]

And you Say She's With Her Friend Never Go In alone LOl if it's her and one friend it's a go BUT more then one friend you lookin to get tryed one will end up tryin to be funny and fuk it up. so if theres 3 of them best bring a friend at least 1 guy for ever 2 girl's or your just goona be a joke for next hour

i can go on for days with do's and dont's


AOL Sn: SkipStaa

[warfacemafuqa]

Nigga .. She Just as nervous as you Pimpin next time you see her take a deep breath and call her over..

Ask her how her days is
what classes she has
what she does after school
she'S young find out what time her curfew is IF ANY lol
what's she does for fun ask if she goes to the movies or the mall when she say yea then ask if she would want to go with you this weekend if she says yes end the conversation and get her number always be the one to leave first always make them want jut a little more

same advice i'ld a gave da nigga, but look young, dis is a way u can approach her tho as well as da options above aight walk and say dis
damn bitch, let me hit dat monkey. lol
nah for real tho young
CAPS IS HER SPEAKIN AIGHT

excuse me tamia (or whatever da name is), how u doin today? I'M AIGHT N U, i'm chillin on my way to social studies or whatever class. where u headin? I GOT WORLD HISTORY (shit dog same direction or not) can i walk n talk wit u for a minute? SURE i'm so n so from msn, we be talkin quite often on da internet. and i see u in school lookin beautiful on a eryday occasion, i'm really feelin everything about u, but i don't know much about u and i wanna know more. what do u get into on the weekends or after school? I'M EITHER WIT MY GIRLS OR AT DA MALL OR WHATEVER well how about me n u get up this weekend and chill, we can hit da mall, movies, park, or jus chill over each other house? FUCK U NIGGA GET OUT MY FACE (LOL JUS PLAYIN DOG) SHE'LL SAY OK can i get ur number so i can call u and we can speak a lil more about this weekend or whatever? 381 220 8 ZERO ZERO 4 HIT MIKE JONES UP ON DA LOW (LOL) LOL lol once u get da number jus be like well aight, i'm a go ahead n get to class aight. i'll see u a lil later.
then flick her off n leave, lol then jus roll out to ur next class aight, u should be str8 wit dat. or da advice cuzo gave u above.

any q's holla at me by clickin da name n send a e aight

[Shattaz]

Real Talk just be yourself with a lil crack in it meaning be a lil conceited. Girls love confidence. All you have to do is get the girl to talk and as long as u listen and pretend to be interested if u aren't u be coo. Then u'll soon become more comfortable just remember if u screw up with one girl you can always find another one and get at her ;) real talk confidece is the key

[mahmi]

When she is over with her friends ask her can you talk to her for a minute. Tell her upfront.

EXAMPLE: "Hey Sweetheart, I just started seeing you around here.... you new?"
Girl:um.. no..
You: Ok I saw you oneday and I was thinking Yo, she got some pretty ass eyes.... damn I gotta talk to her nah mean....
Girl:blushes.. giggles...
You:Can I get a Thank You (smiles)?
Girl:Thanks
You:I was thinkin of a "Can I treat you to lunch" kind of Thank You...
Girl:giggles
You:I take that as a yes.....So, babe whats your name?
Girl: Mahmi
You:Ok Mahmi with the pretty eyes. What day is good for you and me with some lunch? (grabs her hand soflty) (kiss her hand)
Girl:whenever I guess....
You:You guess....(smiles) Aight, (mocks her) I guess...yeah lets do that tomorrow. Get a little talking going on....some eating... cause I need to know more about you pretty. It's whatever you want ok sweetheart?
Girl:Ok (smiles)
You:ok beautiful let me let you get back to your friends...(hugs her; make sure you got on a nice cologne and you took a bath lol) walk away
Girl:goes back to friends and tell them all the details

[medialab54321]

Just be yourself man.

[z.Designs]

thnx alot yall...

[siny10306]

if u can see if u can talk to a friend of hers and see what shes into and u culd try n break the ice wit dat.... i woulod personally wait till she alone so she aint influenced by anyone unless shes walking wit a girl that u are friends wit alrede.... jus say hey listen im really shy and this is kinda hard for me to come up to a beautiful girl like u and ask u out... thatll make the girl feel special and girls love that.... u jus gota sound confident in yaself and wat ya sayin

[_Midnight_513]

same shit here word like a motha

this always helps me..................think of it this way, she just as nervous to talk to u, we men think girls are all confident and talk to whoever whenever...........like my nigga said^^^ the worst she can say is no


Sho Nerf!

[z.Designs]

oh yee...thnx erryone....we started talking agen on msn// :)....and she sed she wud c a movie wit me hehe ;)

[Rastafarian]

r3w1ndz,lol you owe me dawg lol jk...its all good i had to help a nigga out nah mean...good luck with it

[iLLmatiC AK187]

just be very confident
n talk things that can lead to newer things
for exampl

You:You like movies?
Girl : yeh blah blah was my favorite one
You: oh foreal Blah blah was my favorite one too
Girl :what kind of movies do u like?
You : blah blah
GIrl: you like porn?
You:yup speaking of porn u like anal?
GIrl: yup, lets have sex
you : aite

LOL

[tusmoove]

Hey bro i know where your coming from bak in my school dayz i felt like that but lucky for me all the girls wanted to know me as much as i wanted to talk to them in school! The shyness comes from not wanting to be rejected or mess things up! the way you feel now is like you dont wanna talk to her and get a negative reaction especially after you both have been talkin on msn! there was two ways i use2 deal with it back in school, the long way and the short way, depending! 1. the long way: gain an mutual acknolegdement like saying hello to each other when ur passing in school that will definitely ease the ice 4 you so after a week or so sayin hello casually when passin now you know when your ready to make your move 99% chances are that its gonna b all smiles and things will flow really well if you can maintain a convo (ill get to that in a bit). 2. the short way, what use to work for me was doing something to catch her attention i.e. like bump in2 her by accident (not hard) and b very apologetic or when shes passin drop a book infront of her, somethin bumb like that you know what i mean just get her attention so you can spark a convasation, trust me it work, what i would always do is make sure the convastion is short but sweet like start by askin her a couple common questions like wheres she from? how old is she? basic things like that, i use to ask personal questions coz if she likes you too it makes her think your interested in her! Dont ask too many questions coz girls get bored and sometimes put off by them plus when guys holla at females thats what they mostly do 'ask questions' and you wanna leave an impression on her not b like the rest (if you get what im saying!?) then ask her 1 question that she HAS TO elaborate on like 'i always see you bla bla but how comes i never see you at bla bla...........' or whatevers easy for you, i would ask a question like that coz when see answers it you can start talking about why your at the place you dont see her at and you can recommend it or invite her a time when you know your gonna be there! but remember to make sure you end the convo, so after that just politely say i gotta go explain why you have to go like, im late for meeting a teacher or a friend something like that, dont say ur late for a lession if you kow her lesson starts the same time coz the main thing you wanna do leavin the convo is for her to be thinking that your interested in her and your leavin the convo coz you have to! coz the worst thing a guy can do is get in2 the FRIENDS only bracket and you dont want that you want her to be thinkin its a lil bit more than friends so you have to be subliminally leavin makers on her mind that your interested in her (say a compliment too in between convo like ' you have a pretty smile' or something like that i know its corny but funny enuff it does the job, oh just say 1 compliment dont over do it!) let her know that you'll look out for her around school and u'll talk again soon. after that my friend it should be icing on the cake from there on in. trust me it always use to work for me and i made it fun rather that something i had to do, i uses to make it a challange for myself. anyways it looks like you got her attention so good luck hope the info helps. Peace

[Felony]

yo dawg im tellin u dis, evry chick likes a sense of humor. but u cant b talkin all da time, das where questions come in. u ask her questions to keep her talking n so she don lose interest. n make sure u ain stiff n all serious as shit, naw mean u gotta loosen up crack jokes, make da bitch smile. n dat otha nigga was on da button yo, b urself n if she ain feelin u den das her problem, don b fake 4real cuz das gon b more problems later on. good luck mai yout
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[jmill703]

Your 1st mistake was talkin to her on MSN then not talking to her when you see her... Your just going to have to grow a pair bro...Most girls ain't just gonna come up to you and start a convo unless you know them.Its cuzz they are scared. Your the man your gotta have to initiate the convo. Just talk about anything. Girls love talking about themselves, so just keep asking her shit...

[aMeRiCaNDReaM01]

I used to be shy as a mothafucka...but juss like I realized...it's ALL about ur self-esteem & confidence...but yea, if you got a problem w/ not having enuff to say...you make it short & sweet then...call up some girl, ask her out...then get off the phone IMMEDIATELY...think of it like this...you wudn't rob a bank then loiter around afterwards wud you?? lol ;)

[Excelled]

yo bro I wuz in the same position as u r rite now few months bak and I really wanted to ask thiz gurl out but weneva i went to ask something wrong happened so 1 day she was eating in cafeteria I called her ova and talked to her and she told me dat she wanted to ask me out to and after that conversation she wuz in my hand and we wuz outside makin LOVE !!! ah....good dayz man cant forget those

SO WUT I GOTTA SAY IS go fo it

[z.Designs]

WOW THNX ALL YALL...IV LEARNED A LOT :)

[Rastafarian]

hmmm...

[snowman1900]

about the confidence...just lift your head high man...whats the worst that could happen..she turns you down?/? Right! - there's so many girls out there...and im sure there's more than one..that u can jus be yourself around...and she's cul with it..she even likes it(and not in a loser way)...Good luck thoe!
Word to that!

I was lyk u...But i figured wuss the worst dat can happen..
Capricious is ryt..just ask the gurl questions....And don't wait to run outta shit to say b4 u end the conversation....Always tell the girl u gotta go when the conversation starts heatin up no matter how bad u want to keep talkin...that way the girl stays interested in u. and u'll almost always get at elast a fone # that way

[snowman1900]

I used to be shy as a mothafucka...but juss like I realized...it's ALL about ur self-esteem & confidence...but yea, if you got a problem w/ not having enuff to say...you make it short & sweet then...call up some girl, ask her out...then get off the phone IMMEDIATELY...think of it like this...you wudn't rob a bank then loiter around afterwards wud you?? lol ;)
Xactly

[sanchez]

remember one thing dont let ya nervousness show cause its not a good look to a girl when she can see it on ya face....just B yaself and remain calm, dont try to B rico suave or gangsta to the core either....and remember if you wantin to bag chicks you gotta make sure you carryin yaself well also, feel comfortable.....if you feel good, you look good....

good luck bro...

[philapway215]

just be very confident
n talk things that can lead to newer things
for exampl

You:You like movies?
Girl : yeh blah blah was my favorite one
You: oh foreal Blah blah was my favorite one too
Girl :what kind of movies do u like?
You : blah blah
GIrl: you like porn?
You:yup speaking of porn u like anal?
GIrl: yup, lets have sex
you : aite

LOL
try that shit it works

[smashlee]

imma gurl and trust me ... us gurlz can be just as shy and nervous lol this is comming from me .. im shy as well ... but when u get tha courage up its not as bad as u always think its gonna be

[Younglex]

Look son imma tell u straight I was just like u but not as shy it just takes expirience at this the more u do it the eaiser it gets just talk to the bitch and if she put u down oh well every nigga put down at least once in his life just move on I bet theres a grip of other bitches u could get at but all u need to do is just approach some girls and just talk to em some girls cool as hell but ull never know untill u find out

[curvycharlene]

just ask her about herself hobbies etc . and if she seems interested and asks you questions back i doubt she'll say no to going out wit you

[curvycharlene]

whooops i'm kinda late i guess :D
i see u have had enuff advice propz any way :D

[z.Designs]

HAHA THNX ALL :)
i appreciate it

[brilex]

The Real Key Is To Ask Questions that led to conversation not questions like how old are you were there is only one answer! YOU DONT WANT TO MAKE IT SOUND LIKE AN INTERVIEW IT A BLANCE YOU WANT TO GET AS MUCH INFO AS YOU CAN WITH OUT SOUNDING LIKE A BOT

AGE
SEX
WERE YOU LIVE

NOOO BRING IT UP DURING CONVERSATION!!


EX.

guy: you go to the mall a lot?
girl: yea
guy: Me to I live on BLA BLA so it right down the street from me
girl: O cool i live like umm 3 seconds away from you i live near bla bla
guy: do you suck dicks
gril: ass hole (runs like hell)

Have any question get at me AOL SN: SkipStaa



dammit this guy is funny

[brilex]

just be very confident
n talk things that can lead to newer things
for exampl

You:You like movies?
Girl : yeh blah blah was my favorite one
You: oh foreal Blah blah was my favorite one too
Girl :what kind of movies do u like?
You : blah blah
GIrl: you like porn?
You:yup speaking of porn u like anal?
GIrl: yup, lets have sex
you : aite

LOL

ahhahahahahahahaa
another funny mofucka
this thread is crackin me up

[brilex]

i think u should just go with her to the movies and when u see her say somethin like

You:yo ive seen u in the school right
tha Bitch: yea
You:i knew ive seen u too much
tha Bitch:yea i saw u but u didnt say anything
You: (act like you didnt hear that and go like) yea if i knew u were on my school we'll have gotten out a long time ago
tha Bitch:yea yur right
You:yea
tha Bitch: yea
(an awkward pause)
You: do you think the movie would be good??
and then..........................................


i'll let u decide what to do

[WCG]

well since your already doin good on your thing.. the best advice i can give now is to swtich up your routine.. dont make your self seem predictable.. cuz your tryin to make yourself seem more interesting.. so call her one night.. skip the next day and call her the day after... or let her call you... and dont be doin the same thing all the time (like goin same places or calling around a certain time) .... make yourself seem like you want her. but never tell her directly.. girls know this stuff, you aint gotta be to literal with them.. den wen you know she hella interested, pop the question..

like the other dude said.. rob the store.. and move around.. dunt stay in one place.. dats asking for yourself to get caught

[BlAcK wAlLsTrEeT 4LiFe]

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[RINX]

its all good if your shy

[i`M [A] hUS[T]LA]

lol jus wow hahahaha :)

[z.Designs]

^^ LOL @ hustla

post ur pimpin ways :)

[papadocsl1]

first you need to approach the girl with some confidence...and it is not like your going to have a formal convo with her...so just talk about stuff around school, classes, music whatever to keep the convo flowing and eventually it will come more easier
real shit^^^^