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pimpsaucekrew
June 16th, 2005, 07:10 PM
yall kno what they say.."NICE GUYS FINISH LAST"

but y is that? Shouldnt it be the other way around?

I used to be real nice and i got fucked over because the girl took advantage, and now im somewhat nice, and i treat a girl good but y is it that they cant handle a true man???

makes me wanna be an asshole all the time cuz girls are all on my jock when im in that kinda mentality

Ratmman02
June 16th, 2005, 09:23 PM
Cause deep down no matter how much they want or say they want a nice guy, they want someone to treat em like shit, cause most of em are sick in the head like that!

Lega-C
June 17th, 2005, 12:29 AM
^^^^ agreez. It'z fucked up that it'z gotta be that way, but it'z mostly true. Even if you're just kiddin when you're not bein nice, it'z good to do. I'm a real nice guy when it comez to women , but I have learned to change it up a lil. Like the gurl I talk to now. We are best friendz that basically started liking each other. She knows that I'm a tru nice guy, and mostly thinkz that'z a good thing. But at the same time, I know that she likez it when I'm mean to here. She knowz I don't mean it, but cursing her out and fussing about somethin that really doesn't matter to me keepz the peace. It'z all fun and gamez which keepz her happy. So if you're like me, a real nice guy, jokingly treat our woman like shyt. As long as you don't cross over the "that was just uncalled for" line.

Katia18
June 18th, 2005, 12:50 AM
When im with my man and no one else is around thas when i want him to be nice but when we out i want him to be hard like he is with his friends so It dont look like my mans a puusy but i dont eva want him to disrespect me

Ivoson2k3
June 18th, 2005, 01:00 AM
trust me i wondered the same damn thing but ya know what. i look at it this way if she dont want to be with me its her loss she is gonna sadly pick a guy that is gonna treat her bad but that was her decision but eventually homie that girl wont pass up on you and it would have been worth the wait cuz she knows how to appreciate a nice guy TRUST ME be patient homie you will be just fine be urself and dont change it for no one.

kevp
June 18th, 2005, 02:18 AM
^^^real chop. Fuck someone if they aint likin me.

"It aint goin down. You dont love me, I don't love you FUCK YOU. Handle yo shit. I handle my shit."

Be nice, not overly nice. If your too nice, the girl (just like chick who posted two posts up) will think you a pussy, you're weak, she thinks your weak, she wont feel safe with you, she cant feel safe with you, you wont hit it!


^^^Brotha Lynch Hung

sweets4yousweets
June 18th, 2005, 02:28 AM
Hmmmmmmm, I dont think nice guys finish last, I think some women will never be happy cause they not happy with themselves so any man who comes along is gonna get screwed, but the same with men. When you find someone that is real, who knows who she is, is confident in herself and is ready to be loved for real, then you have found your soulmate. That takes time and learning one another, not just hoppin in and out of relationships. And brotha's Miss Perfect does not exist!!!! Neither does Mr Perfect!!! We have to be willing to accept people for who they are, so get to know them and if you want that in ya life, no man or woman should disrespect another human being. But, in reality it happens, so you do the best to be you!

LebronJ2307
June 18th, 2005, 02:43 AM
nice guys finish last cuz bad guyz scheme their way to get a girl by usually lying or saying dumb shit, thats why theyre called "bad guys" while nice guys, since they are nice they dont do that type of stuff

P o o M a n
June 18th, 2005, 10:11 AM
yO needa learn hOw ta use ur pimp hand..set the bitCh staright..

Ecko
June 18th, 2005, 02:48 PM
yea true.. when ur to nice they will see you as their best friend, instead of falling in love with you, they just love badboys.

kcmisses
June 18th, 2005, 03:00 PM
I think the reason us women will go for a bad boy before going for a good one is cause men are suppose to be the power/strength in the relationship while the woman is the emotional/prone one. And I think without that masculine/feminine balance it just doesnt feel right. You dont want a man always up under you always asking if everything is ok, do you need me to do anything for you. Im gonna need you to play your position and I play mines. Sure its nice to have every now and then but not all the damn time. I need to feel safe in your arms, I need to know that you are capable of being my protector. I dont need you calling me every night saying you just wanted to tell me good night. no thats not your position. hell I dont even do that shit.

Rea-Rea
June 23rd, 2005, 03:21 AM
Hmmmmmmm, I dont think nice guys finish last, I think some women will never be happy cause they not happy with themselves so any man who comes along is gonna get screwed, but the same with men. When you find someone that is real, who knows who she is, is confident in herself and is ready to be loved for real, then you have found your soulmate. That takes time and learning one another, not just hoppin in and out of relationships. And brotha's Miss Perfect does not exist!!!! Neither does Mr Perfect!!! We have to be willing to accept people for who they are, so get to know them and if you want that in ya life, no man or woman should disrespect another human being. But, in reality it happens, so you do the best to be you!


that was a good post props... good read

~God-Son~
June 23rd, 2005, 03:50 AM
yeah if u pull out a .22 and slap her around a few times she'll love u forever

MIAMI_CHOPPA305
June 23rd, 2005, 04:33 AM
us nice guys dont finish last just second lol

*For*Lovers*Only*
June 23rd, 2005, 09:56 AM
it depends on the guy and it depends on the girl. i never 'liked' bad guys, i used to pick them cos i thought a) i could change them or b) they'd be good to me while being bad to everybody else and therefore i'd be special.

now i'm tired of that drama. a nice guy isn't the same as a pussy, in fact nice guys are stronger than bad guys cos they're brave enough to be real and sincere. but it takes a real woman to understand that.

Big R
June 23rd, 2005, 12:28 PM
yep, i use too be a nice guy and romantic and sweet and shit now its like just bout fucking and getting my dick sucked FUCK A HOE

YOUNG BROOKLYN
June 23rd, 2005, 12:47 PM
nigga they playin with our heads theses girls , man we have to show them that we not weak, they see us weak they think we cant protect them, u cant understand these girls sometimes, they r too complicated.

bLoOd_mOneY
June 23rd, 2005, 12:58 PM
Nah females are not compilcated homie, what tha fuck is a "nice guy" & a "bad guy"?, nigga just be you, and only you, don't be what tha fuck they want you to be, be you, be a man, if you want respect then claim that shit, don't let no woman tell you how you should be.

mac292oh10
June 23rd, 2005, 01:09 PM
Nah females are not compilcated homie, what tha fuck is a "nice guy" & a "bad guy"?, nigga just be you, and only you, don't be what tha fuck they want you to be, be you, be a man, if you want respect then claim that shit, don't let no woman tell you how you should be.

REALTALK!!!!!!!

Mike2001
June 23rd, 2005, 08:30 PM
Hmmmmmmm, I dont think nice guys finish last, I think some women will never be happy cause they not happy with themselves so any man who comes along is gonna get screwed, but the same with men. When you find someone that is real, who knows who she is, is confident in herself and is ready to be loved for real, then you have found your soulmate. That takes time and learning one another, not just hoppin in and out of relationships. And brotha's Miss Perfect does not exist!!!! Neither does Mr Perfect!!! We have to be willing to accept people for who they are, so get to know them and if you want that in ya life, no man or woman should disrespect another human being. But, in reality it happens, so you do the best to be you!

White Chocolate
June 28th, 2005, 01:00 AM
yall kno what they say.."NICE GUYS FINISH LAST"

because you wanna get your girl off and so you finish her off first? Therefore, you gotta finish last.
:D

ok, seriously, I dont believe that about nice guys finishing last. Guess that depends on the kinds of girls you go for. Some girls are attracted to the bad boy types for whatever reason. Some girls are so accustomed to being treated badly by men (their dads, ex bf's, etc...) that they actually believe that either they deserve it, or that is how love is shown. Sad but true. I got a friend that is like that, she doesnt know any better because thats all she has ever known, asshole guys. Drives me crazy, because she could have any guy she wanted as long as Ive known her, and would settle for assholes that didnt deserve to be with any woman.

notorious_indi
June 28th, 2005, 03:36 PM
yep, i use too be a nice guy and romantic and sweet and shit now its like just bout fucking and getting my dick sucked FUCK A HOE

word to that

Jules Winnfield
June 28th, 2005, 07:17 PM
yep, i use too be a nice guy and romantic and sweet and shit now its like just bout fucking and getting my dick sucked FUCK A HOE

REAL TALK

~!YouNg!~!PyRO!~
June 28th, 2005, 07:44 PM
bcuz iono

ThA PriNceSS
June 28th, 2005, 09:20 PM
Im a good girl and I finish last to........so dont feel bad.....LOL LIke now, treated buddy like gold, did everythin fer him, was alwys honest and loyal...now hes leavin me......I learned 1 lesson from this relationship..
HONESTY GETS YA NOWHERE........the guys friends hit on ya...ya tell yer man....and they get mad you and accuse U of sleepin with the guy anyway...Fuk Dat Shit..

soul.
June 28th, 2005, 09:46 PM
if you are a nice guy and you finish last, maybe you aren't as nice as you thinnnnkk.

Bryan
July 1st, 2005, 03:33 AM
cause they not agressive enough

jovenpoppi
July 1st, 2005, 04:00 PM
i think nice guys are overly nice, dey say nice shit when dey dont evn feel dat way and bad guys are bad 4 da most part but also dey kno when 2 say da right shit(its called game). but man fuk all dat nice and bad bullshit. im me and i keep it real nigga. ask ne chick dat kno me da only dey can say is he's a real ass nigga but i luv him 4 it. i make chicks luv me bcuz i tell dem how it is and if she dun like it fuk off but da benefit is she'll neva fuk off bcuz she wanna kno y im harsh but im not harsh jus real bitch lol so da moral is real men finish first, bad guys get second, while nice guys finish last

pimpsaucekrew
July 28th, 2005, 04:12 AM
ALWAYZ WHATED TO KNOW THIS

tishen
July 28th, 2005, 08:31 AM
say n e thing u gotta say homie to get that ass.coz it dont work bein nice..as lil flip will say need a lady in da street but a freak in da sheets.thats real

jspkt2002
July 28th, 2005, 04:27 PM
yep, i use too be a nice guy and romantic and sweet and shit now its like just bout fucking and getting my dick sucked FUCK A HOE

Thats what im talkin about

redlantern
July 28th, 2005, 05:12 PM
Nice guys finish last because they are to pussy to lay the pipe, a bad dude is only thinkin bout pussy and he gets it done and hes out...a nice guy will fall in love and take his time to lay the pipe and get it snatched from under his nose by a bad nigga like me HAHA

Cameosis
July 28th, 2005, 06:04 PM
nice guys finish last cuz they put the women first. It aint like that and it neva shud be. If you get shitted on, u prolly ended up deservin it. You gotta put yourself first. All you got in this world is you, u worship god, not women. She already worships herself, she dont need you to join aboard. Be your own man, women like this and think they can change you.

Women are average humans, dont do shit you wouldnt do to another guy (no homo Porky :mad:) Like dont be bringing flowers on dates unless yall be married, and even then only do it now and then. Dontbe buying her lunch and leavin ya homies out in da cold, bros b4 hos

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